Quick tips for caregivers
Don't be afraid to laugh.
Humor can lighten the mood and reduce stress. (But of course, never tease or make fun!)
Avoid open ended questions.
Asking simple “yes” or “no” questions will help them make decisions easier and faster, eliminating confusion and disorientation. Whenever possible, have one-on-one conversations in quiet places with minimal distractions. This will help focus the conversation.
Avoid arguing, criticizing, or correcting.
A person with dementia may be living in their own reality, and it may not make sense or be factually correct. That's okay! Listen and try to understand their main points, but there is no need to engage in an argument or correct a mistake in speech.
Speak slowly, clearly, and avoid using a high pitch.
Go through tasks one step at a time, to lessen aggravation and confusion.
Approach the individual from the front and position yourself at eye level.
Over time, people with dementia will lose the ability to recognize faces. Their vision also changes and they lose their peripheral vision over time. It’s important that you always approach them from the front since they wouldn’t be able to see you from the side or behind them. Maintain eye contact. It’s a simple and easy way to show someone you care about them and are focused on what they are saying.
Be patient and show respect.
Don't interrupt. Keep your voice gentle. If you're frustrated, take a timeout and ask a co-worker or family member for help. Show respect at all times. Avoid baby talk and diminutive phrases, such as "good girl", "baby", "sweetie". Don't talk about them as if he or she weren't there.